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This ludicrous disclaimer appears the main page of eHarmony\'s new so called LGBT Dating Site called CompatiblePartners; eHarmony\'s patented Compatibility Matching System was developed on the basis of research involving married heterosexual couples The Company has not conducted similar research on same-sex relationships For more information, see the Terms and Conditions of Service By order of a New Jersey court, resulting froman anti-discrimination lawsuit, eHarmony reluctantlydeveloped this site with that outrageous disclaimer right on the main page honestly this says we will not develop our system to match your requirements, but we will happily take your hard earned money as requiredby the court Compatible Partners claims over 200,000 members match.com for gay dating This is preposterous Are we as gay singles so incredibly desperate that we would use that website? Or, have we just become so used to this kind of extortion, that we just don\'t catch it anymore? Match dot com, Chemistry dot com, Compatible Partners all use the same matching basis for LGBT singles that they use for all of their membersHow can this make sense It\'s a perfect demonstration of Heterosexism, (the belief that heterosexuality is superior to or far better homosexuality) Heterosexism is only another kind of homophobia and it is disgusting that these sites claim to welcome and respect LGBT singles when in fact, all they actually do is take advantage of us Their supposed matching systems are worthless to LGBT people because they don\'t deliver a solution for our requirements and expectations As Children we aretaught about developing relationships and how to date and find partners Heterosexuality is the only option that kids are taught and thus young gay men and women are left to learn themselves Vulgarjokes on the school grounds, distasteful rumors, hearsay and innuendo are normally the young LGBT persons introduction to the gay life Many gay folks pick up onhow to meet others by sneaking around in unsafe and unhealthy places, parks, public restrooms and dark streets For a long time these have been known as meeting sites where the gays meet We\'ve usually had limited selections for meeting people and thus as we usually do we\'ve defined our own resolutionsand learned to etch our relationships as we choose We have defined our paths as we accepted that we should So, I ask why do so many of us still gravitate to these heterosexism based relationship sites to find partners? This goes beyond simple unawareness Relationship and introduction websites tend to be confused with hook-up sites A honest LGBT oriented site with dignity and its members best interests at heart, uses science and psychological elements to supply members with an abundance of information and sufficient knowledge to introduce them to other members with whom they should find enough in common, to develop or at least begin to create a foundation These systems are oriented towards gay men and women and our psychology and environments Members should only have access to members they are matched to Scrolling through tiresome lists of members who are often hustlers, predators or even old profiles that go back to the birth of the internet, is not the way a legitimate provider works A member who is presented with a match should be presented to his / her match with real information which might include a personality profile analysis along with the members summary, it will move past sexual predilections and actually employ science, psychology and technology to achieve this Match dot com or Chemistry dot com are not gay owned or managed They are part of one large company They make no effort to provide options for the Gay population and what\'s worse is, they probably aren\'t even aware of it They haven�t built a base for gay and lesbian people Using the same criteria to match us as they do all of their users makes no sense gay dating sites gay.com LGBT people have many layers so we have our own ways in which we distinguish ourselves and our gender gay dating sites gay.com Gay men span anywhere from ultra masculine to the majority that are pretty conventional to very feminine These issues get ignored within the hetero-sexist sites This applies to gay women as well Gender identity issues are certainly not offered or made a choice on Match dot com You will finddifferent levels of attraction that vary fromelementsthat Chemistry dot com would never offer There are factors that many people within the LGBT population would find critical, that these web sites don\'t even consider HIV/Aids is an essential issue for many gay people, you won\'t see it mentionedon Chemistry dot com I so want to see one of these sites deal with trans-gender people Now more than ever, marriage equality and gay and lesbian rights are in public debate People who fight us and seek to deny us equality, look at our own \' queer\' behavior they judge us To some people, the way we present ourselves is considered unwanted behavior The reality is, we within the LGBT population haveselected and created our own place or niche We\'ve defined ourselves regardless of the criticism we face Many of these criticisms have served to build us up and by this we have defined our fabulous selves Utilizing these factors in our relationships will help develop our community Match dot com and these others don\'t belong in our realm unless they chose to include us in their functionality and I don\'t see that happening There are options and alternatives for gay dating